Im an idiot and I oversimplify things that are very complex way too often........
Are you telling me that the reason why you are grasping on to your wife like a passenger on the Titanic clinging on to a lifeboat is because you are afraid she might get re-married maybe someday to somebody else?
Give her some room JP
If she needs to leave let her go- its the ONLY way you will have a strong relationship in the future
but you have to, you must, work on you....and that focus on YOU needs to start NOW
What was your one goal yesterday? Did you accomplish it?
Before my wifes PA was confirmed I used to have those thoughts- its fear of the unknown
now I know my wife is _________ two other men.
Do I stay or do I go - MY choice Do I file D or not - MY choice Do I leave the house or not - MY CHOICE Do I leave the state with D3 - MY choice
TRUST ME JP- if it happens you will be FAR more equipped to deal with it than you are right now. You will also have transitioned yourself along the way
Your stronger then you think my friend
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
