I don't believe that anyone suggested that you get help for H.
Did I give the impression this is what I thought?
If I did, it was not intended, because I in no way thought to address H with any of this, other than to say that imho, an addiction to gambling is not actually in play here.
I don't know what exactly you think I'm denying.
I disagree with the diagnosis of H, not with the fact that there is some sort of issue there. Nor do I deny my own issues.
I simply am not interested in the suggested type of therapy. Never said it couldn't help, just said I don't find that method appealing. There is often more than one way to skin a cat...
If you can tell me, rather specifically please because it seems that I'm fairly dense, exactly what it is you think I'm denying.
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The denial throughout your posts is pretty thick. It is easy for people in a different place to see
^^ I find this rather vague
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
