Thanks guys. I just finished reading chapter 6 of DR and its already been a huge boost for me. As far as the sitch goes Together 6 years M 2 years. ME 35, W 34 No kids with her. Our problems are many, i've had my episodes with entertaning other women not in the physical sense so to speak but incessant flirting and not to mention the overall problem I just honestly took her for granted. And now she is at the point where she wants to be alone. I think work has been more of her priority in this latest phase of our life and we really started to drift apart. No abuse, mental or physical. We have had lots of ups and downs the big one being the loss of my mother 3 years ago which was dfficult, comcurrently with her being overseas in a war zone for a work assignment. But like I said just the overall taking her for granted, I realized that I was so broken from my 1st M i didn't open myself completely to her because of the way the 1st M ended and now that I realize that i'm deeply in love with her she's ready to go. I have faith that it can turn around and i'm willing to give anything(in the realm of dignity) to save my marriage. We make an awesome team and I just hate to loose her over this tough time in our life that I feel we can overcome. But i'll be honest i'm scared. And this is a totally new emotion for me. I'm so used to getting my way inmany walks of my life, but i'm wearing and embracing these emotions. Thanks guys for all your help... I will continue to post.
