Thanks, fartlitre. I thought I posted yesterday, but apparently I forgot to hit submit.
The mediation was fairly painless. As always they asked us why we were getting a D. W said the usual stuff. Mediator asked if we both wanted a D and W said yes, and I said I initially tried to work things out, but now I'm ready to move on. There's a lot of technical stuff to arrange so it's going to take some time to get everything worked out. So! No expectations. Just keeping my focus on me.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13