Betsey - I meant stubborn in a good way, as in "Never give up!!!" It's a compliment, and I hear you about the anger thing. Sometimes I didn't even recognize myself anymore, and I hated the screaming shrew I was becoming.
I didn't see "me" when I was angry.
Hugs, Myrrh
P.S. Cool on the tattoo - I ought to get one, if only to have something to brag about - hey, my h did this P.P.S. Where are the guys like William Wallace (Braveheart) now?
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.