W came to pick up son for a few hours. Thank God. He was not too happy at first, but warmed up. Son went to play game for a little bit before he left and my wife was sitting on the groin against the wall and just started crying and broke down. I asked her if there was anything I could help with. She said, "I just feel like I'm making all the wrong choices. Nothing I'm doing is right" I validated her by saying how tough it must be to be dealing with everything she is dealing with. We then walked outside. And I apologized for sending texts and told her there was nothing to discuss. She kept talking about her kept crying and crying, I just listened and validated where I could. She said that everything she is doing makes no sense and is stupid. I told her that her choices are what he needs to decide and that they are neither right or wrong, but that they her decisions. I told her that she has the choice to do what makes her happy and that's what she needs to figure out and decide for herself. We didn't get into anything about "her and I" Overall I think I handled it great and was supportive but not "weak" After about 10 mins of talking she said I don't want to discuss this anymore right now. I said that's fine and she took son and left
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it