Originally Posted By: labug
Had to bring this here as it echoes my goals on this journey:

Originally Posted By: Reality Trip
"I want this pain to have a redemptive purpose in my life. I want it to mean something. Pain not transformed is transferred. It would surely lay seed to resentment.


Thanks, bug for bringing it here and sharing. I love it.

(((((bug)))))


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D