you make good points, i met him with a happy attitude and was smiling but that didnt matter. I asked because honestly i am at a loss.

i didnt plan to do any of the things i did, it was like my brain shut off and i just acted without thinking.

H:25 M:25
T: 9 1/2 Yrs
M: 5 Yrs

trouble in paradise: 1/18
Big D: 2/10
EA confirmed 3/11
H Leaves me: 3/30
Files: 4/8
Served: 4/15
OW Confirmed: 8/6
Divorce Final: ???