Hi Snodderly, Sorry think my post was badly worded! Was less indicating that its important for us to help MLCer inner happiness. More 'is the getting Self Esteem important to helping them find it?'. I was wondering whether my W can ever find inner happiness whilst she is struggling to find work and finding her current employment depressing and demoralising.

T^2 - sounds like you are having a better few days of it - keep up the good work!


Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.