CB, Don't ever think that the mlcer doesn't notice things you have done around the home or for yourself. They see it all and they may not recognize it for a long time and then there are some that remain quiet until the very end and then say something.
You've seen some positive steps. Continue as you have been doing and keep those expectations at zero.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
