Had to bring this here as it echoes my goals on this journey:

Originally Posted By: Reality Trip
"I want this pain to have a redemptive purpose in my life. I want it to mean something. Pain not transformed is transferred. It would surely lay seed to resentment. Instead, I choose to come out of this a stronger woman and a better spouse." Granted, I have to realize that I may not be a spouse to the same woman in the future... but I will open my heart again and for all of this... I will be a better partner... to my W or someone else.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss