I hate to be negative. But it sounds like she wanted a R with this guy but settled for the FWB arrangement because that was the best she could get from him. Then when things hit a rough patch with you guys, she reached out to him, hoping he would be willing to move beyond FWB (we always romanticize the ones that got away). But if she's posting sad songs on FB it might mean the bloom is off the rose with this OM and maybe regretting trying to get back together with him. .
Oh I totally agree. She even told me in the beginning that she would want a R but he wouldn't. Then he would and then she wouldn't. Let's face it she's comfortable with him. So why not go back there. But he can't provide for her financially but obviously he can emotionally. But really this is out of my control. This is her life! Her decisions!
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
