I have to watch Nemo again to pick out a character so right now I remain "nemoless".
I looked back over your threads and I think our H's share similar traits. My will ask me about something that he told me about (which he didn't) and then be upset (and not say anything) when I don't know what he is talking about.
I have to remind him that he needs to have his conversations with me out loud .
I loved the way you handled the follow-up conversation and may have to try that here sometime. We have never been to C because my H won't. I went alone a few times, but after 3 sessions the C told me I should attend a D education class.
I told her I wasn't interested and never went back. The only good thing she did was recommend the book DB. I read it and came on here and this place has saved me and my R with my H.
I'm like you - I would love it if my H would come home and work on things. He is here all the time anyway. But so far, I just have to be patient like you.
I see that road trip turned toward the south. I am near the Mall of America and would have enjoyed the company. I only go there with out-of-towners.
Oh well. Keep swimming...
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
