It's not. She likes C. Hates missing it. C was presented as pro-marriage. W has consulted L. Seems like C would coach against that. Against D.
I used to have these thoughts about my former pastor as to why he didn't try to "talk her out of it." I just wanted to continue to blame others for my sitch. I am not saying that is what you are doing, but thinking things like that only hurt you. They don't help at all. I know. I've been there and got the t-shirt.
BD: 8/20/2012 W Files: 8/23/2012 S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out) D Final: 3/5/2013