"If she brings it up tell her it was a mistake to send those texts and you're not interested in discussing it any further, then change the subject."

I like it and that's what I will say. That is perfect, because I do not want to discuss it. What's the point? And what's the point in telling her i know the truth. She knows the truth. Lol she's living it.
It's best to just let it go and let her live it out and focus on me.
Now I know what's best. It's just doing it

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it