You do have dignity and grace Ruby. We love you. You are one of my heroes.
XW has run up crazy debt. She is refusing to disclose financials. The judge will need to tell her I guess. Lots of money missing. She is a banker so she handled the finances. Big mistake. She used me for the BMW last year. Made all kinds of promises then a month later says we are done. She is not grasping that it gets clawed back. Costing me money to do that though.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.