Grizz, I am really feeeling for you. I in turn and worrying about the refinancing the house and also feel that it will be one of 3 strikes before I am out.
1st strike Buying her out of the house
2nd strike Not moving back to the city when are country time is up (even if still separate, but for the kids)
3rd strike Divorce papers
To me these 3 things will add up to the end.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.