Wow Acc!! That is some really good stuff and really puts it in to prospective for me. I need to remember that this is a marathon and not a sprint. All I want in the end is an opportunity for us to work on it. I don't know if it can or will work or not. I just need to focus on me and see how things play out. You are dead on when you talk about leaving the road home paved smooth. I shall focus on me and let her do her
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it