W called to FaceTime son. He did not want to talk to her. She said, I don't want to upset him if he doesn't want to talk. She then asked to talk to me and said that she was going to come in town tomorrow for a few hours to see him. She began to ask me about the stuff I sent her and how do I know that. I said it doesn't matter how I know we don't need to discuss it right now.
When I got off the phone I sent her the following text:

Me: Look there are a lot of things that obviously need to be said. But it will do neither one of us any good right now. I'm upset with myself because yes this could have waited till you got home.
We will discuss this when you get done with show.
Just text me about son tomorrow.

W: ok. Sounds good. Thanks


Ok Accuray. Do I discuss this stuff with her at all when she returns or do I just say there is nothing we really need to discuss at this time?

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it