Actually you know JP, I was in the dark hole and now I feel like I'm finally crawling out of it. See My guts told me for weeks actually for months about this but I ignored it. This time is different, when it's affecting my kids that's when I step in. Most will probably disagree but when I confronted the OM, I felt that I regained some of my confidence back.
I also felt better when I talked to the OM, until my W hit the roof and I saw how far it pushed her away from me and closer to him. My guts tell me a lot, esp about when W lies, it has yet to be wrong. I trust my gut. I am separated from my W and it really does help, I was fearful at first that it was a one way road to D, but now I know I would be D now if we had not S
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
