I hear ya. Just really difficult with what she is pulling right now on several fronts through litigation and poor ethics and blame. I was quite ill 12 years ago and almost died. Was in the hospital for several months. While I appreciated all W went through, I did fight for my life and came out of it luckily and produced a heck of a lot for my family, including doubling her income. i worked like hell. In her pleadings to the court last week, she is wanting a lot of money for missing out on promotions 12 years ago as a result of my illness. This never came up through our marriage and now is being said. That is now officially all of the wedding vows tossed to the curb by her now....sickness and health, good times and bad, fidelity. This is very low blow by her and shows her thinking of herself. I get that it was tough on her at the time, but I was the one scared, in pain and missed so much hooked up to tubes etc for months. Her resentment of that has now been revealed, and she waits 12 years later in divorce litigant and court public records to state that. So in the last 12 years she has been bitter and could not get a promote she wanted and it's my fault? I was disgusted. So are several friends and family now. While she has acted cruel the past 2 years, this takes the cake.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.