If it is worth saving, then it is worth working for...
Take your ego and your pride and stick in the bottom drawer. I prayed for clarity and I got perspective from looking at myself that I never had before. I didn't like it at all. it was painful.
It has been a problem with me about actually doing emphatic listening and truly hearing what my wife was saying. It is hard. Trust me.
I just keep remembering this... "Your actions are speaking so loudly that I can't hear a word you are saying."
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter