Hey BD, hope you are doing okay. Curious; does your older son mor daughter know of OM?
Hey Floyd....been an interesting few days, and I'm close to providing an update to my sitch. I'll probably have news by the weekend.
To answer your first question, yes, I am awesome. I feel great, am getting out, meeting new people, spending more time with friends, family and my kiddos. I feel really busy all the time.
As for your second question, I think S18 probably suspects. All the kids know OM....W has been working with him for years and we've been to their house for parties and such. S18 has worked for OM occasionally as well. I didn't tell them of the affair because I don't want them to think less of their mom. While I am huge on honesty, this is a case where I think less is better.
What I have told the kids individually is that their mom and I both failed each other at different points in the marriage. It's not the fault of one of us, we both share in the blame.
