A little more about my lack of communication skills, and this one seems fairly obvious to everyone but me.
What I got from wifes texts were, that she is DONE, moving on and not even thinking about looking back. I feel her words had incredible conviction to end this chapter of her life. I didn't hear any insight to make me feel otherwise. I haven't for a while thought there was the slightest bit of hope.
However, some of you felt that wasn't the full message. Perhaps she isn't as done as I might think. Perhaps she is, but now I don't know. From her words and actions, I have felt she is COMPLETELY 100% done for some time. Is there a chance I am just not hearing what she is saying in the undertones, or I am not hearing the full message?.....it makes me sick to think I have had countless opertunities to put a twist in our current dynamic, but I have failed almost every single time.
