Weird scenario

[Jeack]

Wow Sandi. I do especially in relationships when critiqued and even at work deflect blame rather than owning it. This is all making me feel like a piece of trash to be honest.

I don't know if I can save this marriage in the short amount of time I have left. But I can hopefully save myself.

I now get the working on me. As far as contact or communication with my W. how do I handle that. I'm thinking I don't contact unless she contacts me and think about what I'm saying before responding. If I even get the chance for contact?