Time for the Loop the Loop on this rollercoaster!

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Gabbysmom thank you for your analysis. You have a way of.misunderstanding my question, and seeing the negative in anything I ask.

I mean do I support her? She has asked,me to help her look and find job listings. But DB principles is to not help them do anything that movrs them closer to divorce.

My question was do I help her find a job? Or do I keep it hard for her to leabe. I dont want her to stat bevause she is trapped and that'd why I lean towarda a job for her.

I truely believe if she worked and started making her own money and dudnt feel trapped, many of this would be resolved