You said it has been almost 6 years since your BD. How long did you stand, and were you the one to initiate D?
Ok, so I went back to your opening post and seen you filed after two years of putting up with crap. It sounds like H was realy making things stressful on you. Looking back, do you wish you had filed sooner?
I'm so glad to hear you were able to keep your three promises to yourself... and thankful that you continue to post here to help others.
I've been able to keep my first promise to myself. Stand for at least a year. I really don't want to leave my love if she is in pain and confused. She stood by me all these years. It does help that she is a low energy MLC'er. (but still hurts plenty)
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
