Every less then healthy thing we do to ourselves -we do out of avoidance of something
That is a huge goal for me.
I always look for something external to make me feel good so that I don't have to deal with something.
The big addiction, porn.
The little ones that are a pain in the a55: Spending money/buying stuff. Comfort eating Sleeping Pity ?? trying to find someone else to comfort me.
My challenge it to, well it is my mission statement ;-)
My Mission Statement: I DESERVE to Love myself. I AM NOT afraid to love myself, and hold myself in a higher regard of self respect... I HAVE self worth and value. I WILL be a kinder, more giving person, a person that can love without expectation. I WILL accept myself for who I am and accept others for who they are, without judgment. I WILL be honest. I ALLOW myself to forgive. I WILL laugh daily. I AM open to change I AM worthy of being loved I DO accept myself as I am I WILL live my life as best as I can. I WILL not hold anger inside me. I WILL be more giving and not except back. I WILL find my inner strength. I ALLOW myself to be able to be happy and content with myself. I WILL face my fears. I WILL eradicate my abusiveness and need to control from my personality
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
