Originally Posted By: Jeack
I couldn't agree with you more. I think I was emotionally abusive cause I felt like I was the only trying in the relationship and I always had to walk on eggshells cause I know if I told her things that were bothering me she would leave and run

Jeack, I am was emotionally abusive to my W during our marriage, I berated my W and was a bully. I am working on "eradicate it from my personality" (thanks Adinva).
I would challenge you to look deeper into why your like that, I don't think it is from what you stated above^^^.

I take AD and they do help and that is all they do is help. They don't fix anything, but can take the edge off so that you can.

Your getting amazing advice, as am I. The hard part is to really hear it and then act on it.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
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