All we're saying to you is that based on our own experiences and what we've read time and time again on these boardss, pursuing, begging, berating, and all the stuff our guts are telling us to just simply will not work. Period. DB on the other hand might eork. That is, if you're really willing to put in the effort. And the sooner you start, the better the chances are that you'll get the outcome you're hoping for.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13