I am a NICE shark, not a mindless eating machine.

[Lyrael]

I know you're asking Meredith, but I don't think it sounds completely whacked - it's one of those - if it works it'll be great, if it doesn't, well...
I don't think he's deliberately not telling you where he lives...that would be dumb, since your girls do stay there. I think this plan kind of hinges on you getting at least a general idea of where it is. I guess you can't just ask, cuz that might scare him....