Stuck..how do I get out???

[tiredndrained]

Thanks!! Its so crazy how one day i feel as if we are ok n the next e are right back in the dark ages again. H out every night again. Its like one small setback n he crawls right back to his old ways. I stick w my stance every time he goes there and that is why wont u leave? That usually ends the conversation. He blames me bc my older son hates him. He does not understand n just acts as if the s11 is just a horrible n rude child. I know it is sons anger at the way he acts. Im not sure how to handle son bc i want them t have a good relationship but i cant make him see my h as someone who he isn't.