Thanks All!....AD, Spartan, AD, AS, BD, Mach, Ruby, Bug. You are all so right, I know. I had tried so hard to be cordial and niceties, and do the right things and have let her bitterness elevate mine. Litigant is nasty. The lies are unreal as you say BD. I am a businessman, coach and volunteer in the community and she is trying to destroy that to save her own credibility. This should have been a straightforward negotiation, but she is wrapped in her own bitterness and poor legal advice and I need to remember that and follow your guidance. I really appreciate it. My amazing sister has been saying the same things to me. She has been through a lot in her day....very bad abuse, infidelity etc. she picked herself up and is happy now. took a couple years but she is successful. She is my hero.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
