Weird scenario

[Jeack]

Thanks for the words of wisdom. It's just [censored] that it seems that the only way to get them back is to do the complete opposite of how you feel.

Then I have a handful of women that know I'm separated, and keep throwing themselves at me. But I've already made up my mind that I won't act on anything until the divorce is final.

And your right, what I wrote may seem manipulative. But it's how I feel. But in reality I'm sure if I could even get past her PA.

I did do some reading on passive aggressive personalitys and what I feel trigger that in me. And on emotional abuse. It definitely all ties back in resent and communication issues and how I deal with them in relationships.

Just seems like she has her whole family hating me, my friends and family see all the pain I'm going thru and there would be so many road blocks to reconcile

But I did see a good quote today.

"If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably leads nowhere"

That's path the W seems to be taking. But I can't change it.