Today, XH tried to do the same thing as yesterday.
He rang D17 offering pastries again (savoury pies & cream and custard-filled eclairs, BF).
But I'd sent D17 and S14 back to school.
So he ended up calling D17 out of school to deliver her pastries in his car at lunchtime.
As usual, WTF?
In the meantime, I headed back to work with a new attitude. For the first time in nearly 2 yrs, I seemed to be able to forget my sitch and focus fully on work. Actually enjoyed myself.
Strangely, the D seems to have worked positively for me. Still can't believe it's happened, but a potent sense of relief is there.
Packed for S14 who leaves tomorrow for 3 days interstate at a big schools' music competition. He's not quite well enough to go, but is needed in the band. He's a bit emotionally fragile too, I reckon, so I hope he'll be OK. I'll miss him but it will give me a chance to get out on my own.