You might want to go on Fandango and purchase your Iron Man tickets today. In my area, they are sold out for the 4 showings tomorrow, as well as Saturday and Sunday.
Sounds like you will have a busy weekend. Wish her well and hopefully this trip will help her settle down a bit.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.