Have a question. W suffers from low self esteem, which I think is contributing greatly to this mess.
She is looking for a job. But not very avtively as I know the whole thing intimidates her. She has been out of the workforce for a decade.
Having a job and a career would help her self esteem, give her something to do all day, put more money into our pockets (even if she moves out, I dont have to pay so much), and gives her better appreciation for what I go through every day.
Not getting a job keeps her dependant, but doesnt help her depression or personal growth.
With my sitch in mind, am I crazy to promote her getting a job?
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017