Lost her love or MLC?

[Alias71]

Thanks in_it. I hope that things are improving in your sitch. You haven't posted on your thread for a few days. I hope that that is a good thing.

My sitch has taken a turn for the worse (or a turn for the same?!!) My wife has been particularly cold over the last few days and that culminated in her telling me that she wanted to separate.

However, we have no financial means to do at present so ultimately it means that things stay as they are. We don't socialize together so no change there. I think that she said it as she sees "no hope" in our relationship. She doesn't want to work at it and I've hurt her too much in the past.

Ironically (or perhaps not?) she has pulled away from the guy I thought she was having an EA with because he was getting too close and as a result of this guy's closeness things between her and the guy she's having a PA with has dampened down too! (Perhaps the PA guy is jealous of the EA guy! Maybe he feels she is cheating on him! Lol)

Just makes me wonder at the timing of it. My main issue (my main 180) is controlling my temper and that's something I've done very well recently. Could that be making her guilty? The WAS is struggling badly. She looks so tired and is very irritable. Of course with me out of the way (even if it is only symbolic) her life will be wonderful!

Oh well, life is for living and it looks like that I will living it alone (or with my children) for the foreseeable future.