You're right labug. You know better than anyone, it's hard to be stationary for so long! MC kept making an error & said two times, you've been separated for 9 months? No! 10 going on 11!
Positives: better communication, touching some boundaries about asking what type of communication he wants in future, still going to MC, complimented me on girls, H says he's not closed to idea of changing his mind again, he asked to stay in house while we're gone for a night, nice dinner with family.