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My next step is letting her know how my filming is going on my current movie. When she informed me how her amends process went with her mom (which I did not ask her to do), she gave me some solid advice on things and then told me to let her know how it goes.

I'm waiting until the show is over which is on the 7th to tell her. I need to figure out how to keep it short and sweet, but that idea goes against who I am as a person. Her advice drastically impacted my show.. it would be great to share it with her.

I kinda hope she reaches out before then. My fear is that she will think I'm pursuing… or that she will think I will start relying on her. I don't want to add that pressure. I'm doing my damnedest to not let that fear dictate my actions… but it is difficult.



Hi Val!

How about a simple but sincere, thank you? No grand gestures, no expectations. Just "thanks, your advice really helped me and I wanted you to know that I appreciated it"

If you are fearful that she will think that you will start relying on her, then don't, (rely on her that is). Keep your detachment in place. Let her continue to reach out.

Just keep on, keeping on! wink


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