Originally Posted By: uRworthy
Hey FY, what's up with you getting on moderation again? LOL!


Hey, careful there... Don't be jinxing me! laugh



Wife at BD:

Originally Posted By: MLC W
"Even if I fall flat on my face and end up in a worse spot, I feel like I have to try." (dump me and move out on her own and date other men to find true passion for once in her life)


Which brought this question to my mind: Do They Always Have To Crash and Burn?


Then UR got me thinking about this again when she posted the following in T^2's thread a few days back.
Originally Posted By: UR
I think that for most mlcers, there is a need to see it through.


BD was over a year ago, W doesn't seem to be going anywhere, and is not involved in an affair. Yet she still sleeps in the guest room and shows no interest in getting physical with me.

Frankly, I'm more likely to end this M than she is.

So my questions are:
1. Does she still have to "see it through", before coming around to love me again?

2. Once the time comes, what is the best way to tell her I'm not staying in a sexless marriage? (maybe I need to read SSM)

3. Since she's still here, (and not complaining about me) she must be getting something out of the R. Would me BD'ing her wake her up?

4. Or do I just continue to suck it up and soldier on and see what happens?

Thanks everyone.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl