Yes, our friends and relatives tell us to move on because they care and don't want to see us hurting anymore. I figured that for me, it worked better to stop talking about my H or sitch to many of them because I just didn't want to hear the comments...
BF - Only YOU get to decide when you are done and whenever that is - in a minute, in a year or in a decade from now, it is OK.
I don't think that your feelings are a sign of a regression. This journey is not linear and some days you feel like a million bucks, or like you have moved on and are happy and some days you are down on yourself or you miss the H you fell in love with...
Be kind to yourself and don't worry too much about "where you are today", because right now you are exactly where you are supposed to. Hang in there!
(((((((((BF)))))))))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
