Thanks snodderly and CB. I try to do my homework, but its like I wake up in a new world everyday. I can't remember jack! I should have all this stuff down pat about the time W wakes up. Just kidding! I fall into the trap of thinking mine is unique and forget they're all singing from the same song book.
CB, I tell you, I have to work real hard to get out of my own way. I'm very opinionated by nature, so I have to watch my tongue. Historically, it hasn't been a problem. This situation is different because W thinks I'm motivated by selfish reasons. You think?!? So, I walk away a lot to keep things from getting worse.
Snodderly, I wish you could take over my brain. You are one amazing lady and an invaluable resource. Keep me on the straight and narrow. I'll get it right one of these days.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later
