Really need some advice, feeling down and out

[Brahmin]

Your too emotional and rigid in your ways, bring the aura from when you meet him, rekindle the memory, be kind, don't react, have patience, meditate, know eastern culture and strenghts, boost his ego, set you ego aside, have some compassion, tone your self down to be a eastern women , try respecting others who are not like you, be open and flexible to other mediocre options, embrace failure. You cannot win every thing, he is passive aggressive most eastern men are and cannot stand a women telling them how to live there life. Your personalities clash big time opposites attract intially in honey moon phase and repel as things get used to ESP after marriage. Connect emotionally first, he sees you like loud mothed, critical, over powering american. Show him you can be hurt and vulnerable, express fellings, don't be so cold and matter of fact like. Show him kindness, the mother like qualities the softer yin female energy, your personality looks more dominant and male like. Sorry if I am so honest but that's what I got from reading your feb post, I want you to be happy