I can't speak the power of now stuff, but I think the welcome wagon idea is a good one. I feel for you sister! The eye contact and other misc. MLC stuff sucks. I haven't quite come to acceptance with that issue, can you tell
I know this is a really personal question, but what the hell. Are you telling me that Mr. W hasn't gotten any in a year (outside of Ms. Michigan, ofcourse)???? Seems like that in and of itself would be a motivating factor to get himself in gear.
Thanks again for your encouragement and support. I can't tell you how many times I think to myself, I need to mull this one over with UD.