Thanks Urworthy! As always you have the best timing of things I need to hear.
I'm not completely there yet, but I definitely begining to feel more and more like I'm understanding that is her journey. I'm beginning to learn to let go as much as I can. I've got to make this about me and detach or I will crumble. I know this. I've got to get back where I was in February and march. April was awful for me. Tidy is May 1, lets get back to it


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it