The RV method focuses on different ways to describe the feeling. If you're having trouble, use the resources available in the other couples.

Btw, no it's not wrong for you to want to find some happiness for yourself and the kids.

Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11