No worries CBT... I was just going to respond with a similar question.
I get what you guys are saying ACC and Ur... I need to lean out, to be more aloof and keep it short and sweet. But, I feel the same as CBT, you so badly want them to start talking, and when they do and you see some positives...how do you not/stop for wanting to talk? I felt I was doing everything I could to to pursue or talk too much. In hindsight with your feedback, I didn't. I was better then I have been, but it good enough. How do we do it?