I just realised that the first message on the 13th April was after a day we spent together with the boys, firstly at soccer and then at a bday party that one of our boys was invited to.

It was a really nice day and I thought I had handled that day really well. we chatted and we got along really well. Here i was thinking that she might be slowly opening up to me...but instead it had the exact opposite effect.

Then she wrote that note....and the words " its time to cut the ties" really hurt and make me feel like its a lost cause.

Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.