Taking a step back-a fresh start

[cbtdad]

Just got back from dinner with the wise man.
He just restablished everything that he has talked to me about. This is a marathon not a sprint. This will be he hardest thing you do if you fight for it, but the reward is great. A lot easier to just walk away, but the pain is much harder down the road. You have to give her space and let her make her own decisions. She has to see something different for her to second guess anything. Same behavior equals same relationship. And my new favorite things he said.
Have no expectations. Which we all know right?
He said expectations = premeditated resentment